Personality types that ruin your chance of success in business
I want to share with you one of the greatest business lesson I have ever learned and what you will probably never find in any book of what I learned from losing a $150,000 per month income!
Having a high IQ an being really smart is what most people believe is what makes a person successful. People like Steve Jobs however, there is another quality that Steve Jobs had that combined with his intelligence made him successful. However, even if Steve Job was not as excessively as he was because of this other trait he still could had been majorly successful just in another field outside of technology which is what also made John Scully successful with Pepsi however, when Apple hired John Scully as their new CEO things went bad for them and Steve Jobs good fired.
In the world of sport this personality type is called a “Cleaner”. Tim Grovers is the sports phycologist for legendary athletes like Micheal Jordan and Kobe Bryant. Tim Grover in his book “Relentless” calls people like Micheal Jordan, Kobe Bryant, Dennis Rodman and yes, even Steve Jobs “Cleaners”.
You have conscientiousness at one end of the scale and agreeableness at the complete other end and if you are too conscientiousness or too agreeable things will not go well for you.
If you are too conscientiousness you will offend a lot of people and if you are too agreeable people will walk all over you. In the book “Relentless” TimGrover tells a story of a player not pulling their weight and a “Cleaner” like Jordan and Kobe said to this person “You’re not playing tonight, I’ll play for the both of us” insinuating they did not need them.
An agreeable person would be offended by this statement and bring up a reason why they could not play at their best such as “my father died” however, a conscientiousness person will think, “I’m sorry your father died, but you good a job to do”.
On the other hand extremely agreeable people are empathetic, compassionate, but they are not good at standing up for themselves in which they are often pushed around.
Agreeable people avoid confrontation so if they need or they will avoid avoid asking for help directly so they will try to manipulate others by thinking because I did X for you should return the favor by doing X and when life treats they harshly they are extremely resentful.
They seem very nice on the inside however, on the inside they are resentful and manipulative.
I see a bigger problem in society with people being excessively agreeable and if you are excessively agreeable Dr. Jordan Peterson in his video says: “STOP” however, generally the only time you will stop is once you have gone through enough trauma.
In business problem with being overly agreeable is you will spend time with people who do not have much money to spend with you however, you will try to work with them because they need your and you are such a kind and giving person however, once you make these people confront their issue they will abandon you in an instant.
Cynthia Shelton owned $9 million dollars in real estate and lost it. I worked as a business strategist working with multi billion dollar companies while at the same I build the infrastructure of a $150,000 a month Beachbody business and lost it because of being overly agreeable.
I can tell you story after story of some very smart business people who never really got their business going because of being overly agreeable.
Again, as Dr Jordan Peterson brings out a certain level of agreeableness is healthy however, being too agreeable is dangerous because people will suck your energy and waist your time. They will ask for your time because you truly want to help people and you want to be friendly but other agreeable people will drain your time and because you are concerned for them stress you out thus taking your attention from your business, other rewarding projects and your family.
The controversial book “The 48 Laws Of Power” which I believe was written for excessively agreeable people, takes lesson from history to arm yourself with the knowledge so you can protect yourself from those who will take advantage of you.
“Machiavelli’s” wrote “The Prince” which was published in 1413 A.D which one of my favorite quotes from this book is “It is better to be feared than loved”. I would change the word from fear to respected. It is better to be respected than loved.
Agreeable people are in denial, so to find out who you really are we suggest that you take the following personality test >>https://www.truity.com/test/big-five-personality-test
Women by nature are more agreeable however, if you are an agreeable man you will sherk your responsibility of being the leader and breadwinner of your family thus depriving your family of your valuable time all because you are more concerned about your own interest than the interest of your family.
Take for instance Rick Engstrom who…
Dr. Jordan Peterson suggests “Assertiveness Training”as you see in the following video.
Which is why we included within your work book and action plans for those married men the “Alpha Husband Academy” and the single man the “Alpha Male Academy” and we decided to exclude women because being overly agreeable is not a problem for women however it is for men because the data shows that women out earn their husbands in 39% of married house holds.
An article from Learnvest.com addressed the issue of credit card debt being a dating deal breaker. You can find the original article here >> https://www.learnvest.com/2018/02/this-amount-of-credit-card-debt-is-a-dating-deal-breaker
If you’ve got $11,524 of credit card debt, good news for you! You’re officially way more dateable than someone who’s $11,525 in the red.
That’s the exact balance where the average American finds credit card debt unacceptable in a partner, according to a new survey from Finder. The site asked 2,000 people about what types of debt are the biggest dating deal breakers, and man, do things get judgy fast.
You can find the survey at the following link >> https://www.finder.com/unacceptable-partner-debt
Of the major forms of household debt, credit card debt does the most damage to your dating potential, said 78% of respondents. Closely following are payday loans (77% with a $1,830 tipping point), student loans (76%, $51,000) and loans owed to family and friends (74%, $6,092). On the other end of the spectrum, people found business loans and home equity loans to be the most acceptable in a partner. Translation: Fire up those dating apps, entrepreneurial homeowners.
The fact that credit card debt, payday loans and personal loans top the list of unattractive debt makes sense, since many people see this as bad debt and a sign of poor budgeting — with potentially high interest-rate burdens to boot.
As far as student loans go, whether the balance is worth it depends so much on whether a higher degree can mean higher earning potential down the road. On the bright side, Pew Research Center data shows the median student loan borrower owes $17,000, and just one in four borrowers has a balance of $43,000 or more. So don’t sweat it, academic overachievers — you don’t have to worry about being single forever.
Whether you’re looking for love or just want to improve your financial situation, these tips can help you create a plan to pay off your debt. Hint: It starts with reining in your spending and getting organized. And even if you’re “just dating,” you shouldn’t leave important money conversations for future you to deal with later. Here are some topics you might want to broach early on — and yes, being transparent about your debt is one of them.
We here at the “Alpha Lifestyle Academy” have addressed that men and women are attracted to each other based upon a number of factors and the more of these factors you develop the higher quality of partner you will attract and the high quality of person your husband or wife will become which is why we created “Alpha Lifestyle Academy”.
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This is especially true for men because as the following video from Dr. Jordan Peterson shows:
How to overcome with life’s traumatic events!
Everyone goes through traumatic life events, some worst than others. My job is to bring you back from your life traumatic events.
When I return you to the game of life you will not be the same YOU”LL BE BETTER because if you return to life the same YOU WILL GET HURT AGAIN.
After some of these events people get depressed and self consumed in their problems not able to do anything. I have worked with people who have locked themselves in their house and even sometimes they locked themselves in a room in their house separating themselves from their family.
In many cases friends and family are no help to snapping your out of your depression or mental anxiety from your trauma. You friends and family mean the best however, in many cases they will allow you to wallow in your own self pity.
For some of you the trauma you are going through people may even wonder what is the big deal however, to you it is a big deal.
For me, it’s an emotionally abusive relationship that finally lead to divorce. I was a very emotional guy. So was my ex-wife’s father. By seeing how her mother treated him she knew how to get to me.
One thing my ex-wife would tell me is my mother knows how to push his buttons. The entire family makes fun of the father in which her turned to alcohol to escape his problems.
I make the comparison of Homer Simpson as to my father in law. My father in law is Homer Simpson.
Of course things did not start out bad however, through time something started to happen my wife stoped holding my hand, did not want me to kiss her the way I did before.
Eventually she started to tell me she did not love me anymore, I was a loser and that she hated me which put me into a depression. I was so depressed that I started beating myself.
I am not perfect however, I always tried to treat her in a way to make her feel “cherished”.
At the time I was working as a business consultant many times working with multi billionaire companies. There are people who are more skilled and talented than me however, I was successful in working with these companies.
The company ended up closing down so I was back in the job market as we’ll as trying to use my skills in making money. However, due to the fact I was so depressed and I was beating myself to push myself I could not find a job and who could blame them however, my ex-wife started spreading rumor thats I was refusing to work.
I sought help from those I looked up however, they took her side. The was not about taking side but getting help. They refused to look at how deep of a depression I was in and that I was so depressed I beat myself.
I evenly pushed through it and made $5,000 a week for a couple of weeks hoping things would get better however, it actually made things worse because my ex-wife stopped talking to me which pushed me even further into a depression.
Something I did not understand that at the time however, after consulting with therapist who believes by what I said (of course they only have mysids of the story) but my therapist believes she want to end the marriage however, she needed an excuse so the divorce would not reflect on her.
We separated and then got back together for 9 month however, it still did not last. She went to her parents for a visit and never returned and moved back to California where we were living before the separation.
Months later I found a picture of her brothers instagram linking to a car chase on Fox News. My ex-wife new boy friend was gangster from Compton who while my ex-wife “Lynda Murillo Brown” was with her new friend he stole a truck from them and kidnapped her and stabbed her the police eventually shot him.
After our first separation we moved to Florida however, after our second separation I was so devastated that I lived out of my car for about 9 months. I tried to use my skills to make money to get myself out back out of this situation.
I sat at a table in the park, trying to work but is all I could do is look at it. I was so exhausted I would fall asleep working at the table.
I lady from New Jersey came to Florida and invited me to stay with some friends in her time share for a couple of months while in the time my happiness level started in increase I was not happy but my happiness level do go up so I could think a little more clearly so upload some Youtube video which earned me enough to get take a flight back to California which my old boss Paul Gonzales invited me to stay with his to re-start my business.
I was consumed by my problems I could not do anything else. The book “Relentless” by Micheal Jordans performance coach “Tim Grover” says: Emotions make you weak because it causes you to think about something other than what you are suppose to be doing.
After YOUR trauma you will need sometime to re-group and wallow in your own self pity however, after this stage is over it is time for you recover from your trauma. Tim Grover again, works with high level athletes like Micheal Jordan.
Tim Grover says: Lot of my work is to bring a player back from serious injuries. When I return him to the team HE WILL BE BETTER THAN HE WAS. It he returns him the same he’ll probably get hurt again.
I made my problems worst by being emotionally weak. This infuriate some of you because you are not ready to hear it however, for those of you who are READY your trauma has been worst by being emotionally weak. It is now time to accept the responsibility.
I found three very good people in my life (Rick Erickson, Lou Malina, and Ruben Munet) and I do not know where I would be without them however, many of them wanted me to give up. They allowed me to feel sorry for myself.
I first Isaiah 43:18-19 that says: “Do not remember the former things, and do not dwell on the past, Look! I am doing something new”
Just like Tim Grover who’s job is to work with injured players and make them better than they were before. My job was to re-invent myself and make myself immune to pain.
1) The first thing I did is to change my identity before everyone knew me as Chris Brown. It’s ok if people still call me Chris however, Today I go by the name Christopher Brown.
2) The next thing I did is to change my self perception of myself through positive self talk and mediation.
3) The other thing I did is to study people who went through trauma and who came out the other side a success. One of my favorites was Curtis Jackson (A.K.A the rapper knows as Fifty Cent) who mother was murder at an early age and forced to be a drug dealer to survive and had the courage to overcome his trials and leave that life behind and became a successful raper and even a more successful business man.
See his story in the book “The 50th Law”.
I also started learning about the Navy Seals techniques. The Navy Seals go through BUDS training before becoming a Navy Seal which is the toughest training in the entire U.S Military.
80% of people fail to compete BUDDS training. Even if you complete BUDDS training that does not mean you made it as a Navy Seal. As a Navy Seal, in war you are gonna see you pals died. How are you gonna endure that?
The thing about pain and trauma it does matter the type of pain it just matters that you put yourself through pain. The Navy Seals have a saying “The more your sweat in peace, the less you bleed in war”. So the Navy Seal voluntarily put them selves in pain so they are better able to cope with real pain.
The Navy Seals also say: “The only easy day was yesterday”. So I continue to push myself and push myself through more intense pain so that I can endure any trauma that comes my way.
Research shows the average person will have to endure serious tragedy every 18 months. Perhaps for you it has been longer than 18 months and for some of you it’s been less than 18 months however, the economy is gonna crash, someone is gonna, and you are gonna have to eventually endure so sort of pain.
For me I have decided to put myself through this pain now so I can cope when real tragedy occurs however, more important than that I can be the leader that my new wife can lean on for support.
The Navy Seal have what they call as the 40% RULE which says: “When you believe you are done and can’t do anymore you are only 40% done you got another 60% to go. The brain gives up long before the body does.
When your brain is telling you to quit the body is being deprived of valuable resources from either mental or physical stress however, I am training my body to push myself beyond the pain.
Another quote from the book “Relentless” “Ignore the pain, you’ll get use to it”. Because the more pain you put yourself through the more pain you can endure.
I push myself through 3 days fast which has it health benefits however, the hardest thing about not eating is the “Mental Part”. I found a common trait with mental tough people who can push themselves though the toughest circumstances is they are “Ultra Marathon” runners. So I run 5-10 miles everyday developing strategies to push myself further and further without taking a rest.
I lift low weight high reps so I can push myself through the pain until my body gives out.
I just started taking ice showers because as part of the Navy Seal strength training they jump into ice cold freezing water.
Joel Runyon in his TED Talks address that talking cold showers addressed all the weaknesses in his life. He says: “If you are not willing to take a cold shower for minutes. Alone in the shower. Where the only negative outcome is you being cold for minutes. And the only person being effected by that decision is you.
Then how will you ever have the courage to be uncomfortable where the out comes are much, much greater.”
The big mistakes in the battle field is all due to panic and fear however, the Navy Seal are trained how to override fear.
In the book “The Laws of Success” which is a 25 year study of the worlds most success people which they uncover the 17 principles of success, the 30 principles of failure, and the 6 major fears that cause people to self sabotage themselves.
I am a man of peace however, I fully embrace the philosophy of the Navy Seals “The more you sweat in war, the less you bleed in war”. Throughout the “Alpha Lifestyle Academy” we will address the philosophy of the Navy Seals.
In BUDS training it is not the physically gifted who pass BUDS because they are not use to failing it is the mentally tough to succeed but as the following TED Talks points out there are those accustom to failure so they try and try until they succeed. <iframe width=”560″ height=”315″ src=”https://www.youtube.com/embed/kU1DI8HsYAg” frameborder=”0″ allow=”autoplay; encrypted-media” allowfullscreen></iframe>
The Medici Code
A mystery that has pledged men for generations is the secret to wealth. This also pledged the mind of Andrew Carnegie, Andrew Carnegie understood poverty. The industrial revolution killed his fathers livelihood so at a young age he decided to find a solution to this problem is which later in his life he found the mentorship of Thomas Scott as well as Charles Haanel.
Following the directions of his mentors he wrote out his life plan to spend the first half of his life acquiring his wealth and the last half giving it all away. He also wanted to share this knowledge with the world.
Andrew Carnegie decided to do what he could to never let anyone experience the pain of every again, despite the vast majorityignoring his advice In which he commission Napoleon Hill and introduced him to 500 of the most successful business men in the word to do a 25 year study of what these men have in common with each other which was released in 1925 as a correspondence course through mail through a series of booklets and in 1928 released it as the “Laws of Success” in one volume however, Henry Ford felt the “Laws of Success” revealed to many secrets and would create to much completion for him so in 1931 after the death of Andrew Carnegie they released as the classic “Think And Grow Rich”.
Which was marketed as a simplified version however, in reality it was nothing of a sort. “Think And Grow Rich” neglected to reveal the true secrets of success which was Andrew Carney dying wish.
The marketplace of today is filled with so-called experts teaching you the tactics of how to make money however, many of what these experts teach is only one law of the 17 principles of the law of success.
For example Robert Kiyosaki in his “Rich Dad Poor Dad” series address the principle “The Habit of Saving Money” and Grant Cardone’s book “10X Rule” addresses the principle of a “Burning Desire”.
These success principles have been passed on from one generation to the next throughout the ages through oral traditions in small groups and organizations of people.
The story of success actually starts many generations before Andrew Carnegie. Even before the birth of Christ however, these success secrets from all points in history from the writing of Moses, the templar, and even our founding fathers of America accumulated to its dominance in one single point in history.
These secrets have been past on from one generation to the next for thousands of years however, never before was such a collection of these secrets put together so completely as the “Renaissance”.
Cosmo Medici brought together the secret knowledge of wealth of the ages to create the most prosperous time in history.
In the year 1389 A.D Cosmo Medici was born.
Cosmo Medici was the start of great wealth in his family. The medici dynasty reined for 400 years years. The medici family financed the entire reasons. The medici used the wealth secrets of the knights of templar of the crusades.
As the documentary “The Medici Dynasty” shows us that at the end of the 14 century an elicit trade was somewhere in the confines of the holy church lay their prize. Not the jewel encrusted relics nor the sacred icons of midivil Christendom from the templar knights of the holy wars of the crusades. Nor were they seeking the bodies of dead victims of war and plague. But hidden in the darkest values of the church lay their prize, far older, more precious and sometimes far more dangerous.
What these men were really after was KNOWLEDGE.
Cosmo and his friends were looking for lost secrets from the ancient world.
For generations the church has been at odds with science which was prophecies by Jesus is the “wheat and the weeds” pliable. The holy writing of the bible is not a scientific book however, the scriptures harmonizes with scientific ideas.
Issac Newton discovered many things about the universe because he understood the personality of his creator. Not the one the church taught but the God he got to know through the study of Gods word which revealed himself through nature.
After his death they discovered many of his secret writing which state that the world was not ready to hear. These writing were kept secret until the 1930’s.
On the other hand Galileo discoveries threatened the power of the Catholic Church in which he spent the rest of his life in prison.
The Medici used the ancient knowledge of the Greeks knows as “humanism” and the holy scriptures to built their dynasty. They sought out the great thinkers of their time such as….
The Medici saw patterns that they could not explain which was passed on from generation to the next which was written in “The Laws of Success” however, at the time “The Laws of Success” was written science ha yet to discover how these invisible laws of the universe worked.
For example Neil Degrasse Tyson of the Hayden Planetiarium says in the following video ” The universe is knowable, and one does not need to appeal to mythical, magical forces to account for things.
Even if you can’t explain it does not mean it is being driven by mythical, magical forces. It is being driven by physical that we know (scientist) and you have YET to understand. “
There are cosmic forces that you have yet to understand.
You know how to work for money but in order to earn money and have the trust and confidence you will be successful you have to understand some of the basic of the invisible energy of the universe which is addressed in “The Laws of Success”.
It is this invisible energy that makes it possible to get on the internet and receive a message, watch videos, etc…or send a message to your loved ones and it is this invisible energy that makes this all possible.
The bible book of Mathew suggests to put trust and confidence in these invisible laws of the Universe to provide for our families when it says at Mathew 6:25 – 31 “On this account I say to you: Stop being anxious+ about your lives* as to what you will eat or what you will drink, or about your bodies as to what you will wear. Does not life* mean more than food and the body than clothing? Observe intently the birds of heaven; they do not sow seed or reap or gather into storehouses, yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not worth more than they are? Who of you by being anxious can add one cubit* to his life span. Also, why are you anxious about clothing? Take a lesson from the lilies of the field, how they grow; they do not toil, nor do they spin; but I tell you that not even Solʹo·mon in all his glory was arrayed as one of these. Now if this is how God clothes the vegetation of the field that is here today and tomorrow is thrown into the oven, will he not much rather clothe you, you with little faith? So never be anxious and say, what are we to eat? or, what are we to drink? or What are we to wear? For all these things the nations are eagerly pursing. Your heavenly father knows you need all of these things.
Not everyone believes in a God but you do believe in gravity or other energy forces that control our world.
If you remember in school the definition was explained as the law of conservation of energy is a law of science that states that energy cannot be created or destroyed, but only changed from one form into another or transferred from one object to another.
The name of God WHWH in the Hebrew language or Jehovah in English means he causes to become. So the only difference in the laws of energy and God is that those who believe in God believe God is a loving God.
There are mathematic patterns that are repeated over and over all over our world and all over the universe that mathematicians call as the Fibonacci sequence and you can see a video that explains this at
So one of these basic laws of quantum physics, as explain by Jim Rohn, is once you do something often enough an average will start to appear.
Rolling dice is something that seems pretty random, however, There is a FREE government education website for 3rd graders that address your chance of rolling a particular number in dice which the website says: What many people refer to as ‘good luck’ can actually be explained by a little knowledge about the law of probability. Our dice game allows you to see how increasing or decreasing the number of dice rolls affects an outcome. So give it a try, choose the number of rolls you would like to make… You can see this website at https://nces.ed.gov/nceskids/chances/
Now let’s see how you can use this to provide for your family. If you offered a product to 100 people and out of the 100 people 10 bought. What you will notice on average every 10 people you offer a product to will by devoid of talent or skill.
Remember the law of physics says once you do something often enough an average will start to appear so if you offer a product to 100 people and say the same thing to those, 1 out 10 on average will buy, however, if you say something different than you will get a new average which is where skill comes into play, once you gain some knowledge you can try new things and your results will improve. Even in the movie “The Pursuit of Happiness” the life story of Chris Garner they said X number of phone calls = X number of prospects, X number of prospects = X number of customers.
The rest of Mathew 6 says starting in verse 33 “Keep on, then, seeking first the Kingdom and his righteousness, (or quantum physics) and all these other things will be added to you. So never be anxious about the next day because the next day will have its own anxieties. Each day has enough of its own troubles.
This is why people say money does not buy happiness, however, as Forest Gump said when they invested in Apple and found out they did not need to worry about money “He said good one less thing to worry about, it did not make him happy but he had one less thing to worry about.
Now for some, we call this power God for others of you, you call this power energy but we use this same energy to provide for our families. No matter if we understand it or not. if we play the laws of physics it will provide for our families.
One of the Medici discoveries which is found In the bible at Proverbs 3: 5-7, and let’s read it in a way for those who do not believe in God which says starting in verse 5 Trust in (quantum physics, the universe, mothers nature, etc…) with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways take notice of him, and he will make your paths straight.
Do not become wise in your own eyes.
One of the reason for people financial failures is they believe they have to have all the answers before they start. People who eventually become successful do not need all the answers at once. They have the faith as they continue in this journey the answers will unfold.
2 Thessalonians 3:2 says: “Faith (which is one of the Laws of Success) is not a quality of all people”.
Sales and marketing is the highest paid profession in the world however, most people are scared off because they lack the knowledge that it does not matter their skill level because there is no if’s, and’s about it, if you play the laws of physics you will make money.
Romans 3: 3 says: What, then, is the case? If some lacked faith, will their lack of faith invalidate the faithfulness of God (Universe)? Certainly not! But let God (Universe) be found true, even if every man be found a liar, just as it is written: “That you might be proved righteous”.
It does not matter if you believe in these invisible universal laws or not. You will be rewarded if you have the faith and confidence to put this into action this is what we call as the “Medici Code”.
How To Build Self Discipline (A.K.A: Mental Toughness, Emotional Intelligence)
Every year millions of people start their New Years resolution however, as the following video from the “Steve Harvey Show” shows us that within just 7 day 25% of people have already given up and by the end of the year 92% of people fail to achieve their New Years resolution.
For one simple reason! They are mentally weak.
The navy seals have this thing called the 40% rules which says when you believe you are done and can do no more. You are ONLY 40% there.
Which means you got another 60% before you are TRULY DONE! When you develop mental toughness you can actually push yourself to achieve 60% more.
My last job I was hired as a business strategist for a $400million dollar company and I would consult with many times billion dollar companies however, at the time I didn’t achieve the success I help my clients achieve. I had the smarts and the know how but I did not have the mental toughness or what is many times call emotional intelligence.
Jordan Belfort, the REAL wolf of wall street did a speech on the 10 reasons why he believes people are broke which he says in the inability to handle your emotions is just one reason.
Tim Grover the sport phycologist for NBA greats like Micheal Jordan and Kobe Bryant says in his book “Relentless” emotions make you weak! He goes on to explain: the fastest way to tumble out of the zone is to allow your emotions to drive your actions.
Emotions cause you to think about something other than what your suppose to be thinking about.
In the book the 50th Law, Robert Greene and Curtis Jackson (A.K.A the rapper known as Fifty Cent) explain that the vast majority of people try to escape their problems through entertainment however, successful people in what every they do try to find solutions to their problems.
Can you pick up the phone and make a phone call? Sure you can! Can you do it 300 times a day? Can you do it to a complete stranger? Jordan Belfort knew what he was talking about when he said the inability to handle your emotions is one of the biggest reasons why people financially fail.
He worked in one of the most mentally difficult careers in the world, selling over the phone. However, Mark Yarnell a former writer for Success Magazine said: “The less people are willing to do a particular job the more those who are willing to do it get paid”.
I use sell tools over the phone at the same company Vin Diesel use to work at before he became a famous Hollywood actor, as well as Billy Bones the lead singer from the punk band “The Skulls” and Andrea Gonzalez who appeared on many Hollywood hit TV shows.
While at that company every Monday they would hire 10 new guys and every Friday they would fire another 9 because they were not mentally tough enough to handle the work. When it comes to the millions of people each join the different home based business out there, and most of them fail because they can not mentally tough enough to handle it.
So instead of learning some new social media trick you should spend that time developing mental toughness.
So how do you do that!
1) Auto Suggestion – In the following video with Louis Hays she says: “With every thought and every word we project our future”. Did you ever see Muhammad Ali in his “I am the greatest” speech? Dr. Maxwell Maltz in his book “Psycho Cybernetics” shows our life is the result of how we see for ourselves. People who struggle year after year with their weight struggle because they see themselves with a weight problem.
In the case of Muhammad Ali he repeated to himself that he was the greatest and once he started to see himself as a champion he began to act in harmony with his belief.
2) Mediation / Visualization – Another way to put this is to become an actor in other words act like you are the person you want to become. Visualize yourself as this person.
I use to tell myself I am not a sales person I am an actor playing the part of a sales person. I also saw myself in my minds eye living where I wanted to live, driving the car I wanted to drive, and acting like the person I wanted to become.
3) Master Breathing – As we age we lose our ability to breath properly. See the following video with Commander Mark Divine demonstrate box breathing.
4) Accountability Partner – Research shows you are the average of the 5 people you spend them most time with. It is difficult to improve some area of your life when everyone around you is encouraging you to quit or that you need to go easy on yourself.
The MLM indiustry had the right idea when they told people to find 3 friends they could work with. This way they can all support and encourage one another.
We are named “Alpha Lifestyle Academy” for a reason! We are here to help you go from average, or even below average and transform you to be ranked in the top 10% of the world in what you do.
Navy Seal training is the toughest military training in the world (BUDS). (People die in BUDS training.) Not just anyone can try out for BUDS however, even though they pull from the best only 20% complete BUDS.
As you see in the following BUDS training documentary 4 people quit within the first day, another 10 quit on day two.
Mark Divin former Navy Seals Commander started SealFit as a prep to BUDS training. 80% of people FAIL to complete BUDS training however, those who first complete SealFit 96% complete BUDS because SealFit gives you the tools you need to master your mind because the mind will quit long before the body does.
SealFit opened up their program to civilian who want to master their mind. The only thing that stops you and me from making $20,000 in the next 30 days in the mental blocks in your mind.
In the following video see how by master your mind one guy jumped from making $6,000 a month to $98,000 in 54 days.
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When you look at ultra marathon runners a thing they all have in common is they all are mentally tough! Running helped them develop mental toughness. For example David Gogins who was a fat defeated young man with dyslexia however, he started running then started running ultra marathons and then he to became a Navy Seal.
Today he is a retired Navy Seal however, he runs over 400 miles per month.
Owner of the Seattle Seahawk and co-founder of Maruis jets runs ultra marathons
When you fail to get up and go to the gym, when you give in to your desire and eat that pizza, when you do write the blog posts you’re suppose to write, or film what Youtube video to promote your business it is because you are mentally weak.
However to start on your journey of developing mental toughness which will give you the mental strength to over come any obstacle start by using Kaizen. Kaizen is small incremental improvements that over time give you drastic results.
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How Raise Business Capital! Get $50-$100,000 In The Next 180 Days (That You Are Not Personally Responsible For) How I made 141 Sales within My very First 6 Hours In Business Billion Dollar Blueprint
Back in 1925 Napoleon Hill released his 25 year study of the common habits and personality traits of the world most successful people, billionaire like: Henry Ford, John D. Rockafeller, and many others which was released as “Laws of Success” that later was released as the classic “Think & Grow Rich”.
One of the common traits among these high achievers is something the book calls OPM (Other People’s Money). High achievers use the wealth of others to eventually make their own wealth. The common person choices the path of hard work to make a living however, Nepean Hill taught use to think and strategies in order to our fortunes.
Every year millions of people attempt to start their own business and because they don’t know how to raise money they end up using their own saving, credit, and investments to fund their new venture or the use the money of friends and relatives.
However, most of these people are not ready to start their own business because of not having the knowledge of how to acquire customers. Sure, they know what they do but they do not understand the important parts of their business such as how to raise money to advertise and how to sell.
So many of these people business will fail leaving a trail of debt and bad credit that will not only haunt them but all those who helped them fund their business however, there is a secret that we call as the money saving secret of the ultra rich.
Because when rich people fund their business they do not put themselves at risk they use insurance to hedge themselves and protect themselves from financial loss. When the wealthy raise money they establish corporate credit so just incase the business does fail they owner(s) is responsible for the debt in which they can start up a new corporation.
So if the business does fail, they just start a new corporation and start establishing a new line business credit. This is why many wealthy people own multiple corporations. So if one company fails they have several more corporations to make up for any losses.
Throughout this program we will share with you over 1.5Billion dollars in research of what all the world most successful businesses have in common that will give you over a 300% greater chance you will succeed. (More on this later)
At first this may anger you however, now that you know this you can start using the same tactics that they wealth do even if you have a lot less money. the average million spends 60 min. Educating themselves on business and financial material.
I want to congratulate you because you have taken the first in something majority of people will never consider. Where the average person spends 6 hours watching TV and another 2 hours on their smart phone in non conversational activity such as watching cat videos on Youtube.
Successful people invest their time trying to find solutions to their problems no matter their income where the common person spends their time trying to escape their problems.
Banks and lenders loan out money based upon risk the less risk you have the more like you will get funding and get more funding than you ever thought possible By following the steps outline in this program we will show you how to raise $50,00 to $100,000 in as little as 48 hours to 180 days that you are not personally responsible for.
The first thing you need to do is establish your businesses credibility from the point of view from lenders. It does not matter how creditable you or your customers think you are but rather how creditable lenders think you are.
In the financial world the less risk you have the more likely you are to get funding, the lower your payments will be from loan payments all the way to insurance cost.
Over the next couple of modules we are going to walk you through step by step how to establish business credibility however, imagine if I got you $50,000 in the next 48 hours what would you do with it?
I need to show you how you can take $50,000 and turning into $100,000.
Imagine if I could share with you how to use the wealth of others and turn it into $100,000. Imagine what that would mean to you and your family. Just think of all the people you could help.
Secret Trait: Millionaires Developed Before Becoming Millionaires
In the book “The 50th Law”, Robert Greene and CurtisJackson (A.K.A the rapper known as Fifty Cent) explains that majority of people spend their time trying to escape their problems while successful people spend their time trying to find solutions to their problems.
If you recall from the video with Will Smith at the Nickelodeon’s “Kids Choice Awards” Will Smith said: “There have been millions and gazillions of people who have lived before us and there is no new problem that you can have that someone has not already written the solution down in a book.”
So while the vast majority of people spend their time trying to forget about their problems. Successful people spend their time trying to find solutions to their problems.
There is lot of controversy about income inequality in American however, the average CEO who income is 319X of the average worker spend an average of 60 min. each and every day educating themselves on business and financial material. Where on the other hand the average person spends 6 hours watching TV, and other 2 hours on their cell phone in non conversational activity.
This is why we created the “Alpha Lifestyle Academy” to be a shortcut because most of you will not invest the time to read all the books you would need to read in order to be successful. For example Mark Cubans favorite book is Napoleon Hills “Laws Of Success” if you listen to the audio of this book which is 25 hours long.
How To Emotional Recover From Divorce! My divorce had a devastating effect on me. I was raise by 2 parents who remained loyal to each other until my mothers death in 2008 and I was raised to have the same standards.
My separation, break up and divorce impacted me so much that I went into a deep depression. My depression was so deep that I could not even function.
I lost my home, my business, my friends, and lived out of my car for 9 months. One of my new friends shared with me after his divorce he locked himself in his house for couple months only coming out to answer the door when the pizza delivery man showed up at his door.
The following are tips on how to emotionally recover from divorce:
1) Get A Good Support System – I will say in most cases you will have friends and family who will be there for you. In my case I did not have that luxury. Me and my now ex-wife Lynda moved to a new state and did not know that many people.
My ex-wife for a time went back to her family in Texas and then moved on with her life moving back to California however, I remained in Florida. After about 3 months of living in my car did anyone come to check up on me however, most everyone I knew abandoned me.
The problem was not that I was abandoned by majority of my friends but rather I had to find new friend who would help and support me. So if you find yourself in a similar situation go out and find new friends who will be there for you.
I was not abandoned by all my friends just majority of them.
2) Positive Self Talk – Divorce can reek havoc on your self esteem. In addition to that you wife and now ex-wife has probably called you ever name in the bad however, in stead of giving in to the titles you have been called.
I learned a powerful lesson from Muhammad Ali who if you recall would always tell himself “Let me show you how great I am” as you can see in the following video.
In the next video from Louise Hays in which she says: “With every word and every though we project our future”. So if we continue in the conversation of your ex-wife who may had told you that you are worthless, I hate you, and other degrading comments you will only end up in ruin.
You must change the conversation.
After listening to the video of Louise Hays I wrote down on a piece of paper and read each day. That Chris Brown is a 10, Chris Brown is sexy, Chris Brown is amazing, and other qualities I wanted to be know for.
3) Positive Outlook – When people go through hard times most people give up. I am dyslexic and fellow dyslexic Barbach Corran from Shark Tank in her Ted Talks on the subject of dyslexia stated the dyslexic have failed so many times that failure is not a big deal to them so they try and try until they succeed.
Even though I had a 2 friends who were there for me they did not give me what I needed. They also though I should give up and go back home and live with my dad however, I told them I was a fighter.
What I needed is not what I got until I read a bible scripture in the book Isaiah 43:18 which stated: “Do not focus on the things of the past”. And verse 19 said: “Look I am doing something new”.
I had been spending so much time dwelling about my problems however, verse 19 talks about future blessings. So I had to start focusing on my future what I could control.
4) Reinventing Myself – So I started reinventing myself. I changed my name instead of Chris Brown the internet marketing surfer guy who always dress in t-shirts and flip flops. I became Christopher Brown and started dressing like a professional.
Even the changes I could not make immediately I started reinventing myself in my mind. If I could not afford a suit. Imagined in my mind I was in a suit. If I could not afford my Ferrari, I drove a Ferrari in my mind.
I was Chris Brown playing a part. I started gradually changing my personality and transforming myself from Chris Brown to Christopher Brown.
Now not everything had I imagine so far come true yet however, everything I had accomplished so far I imagined in my mind and played the part. Things I had no idea how I would accomplish them but I did.
5) Find Someone New – I loved my ex-wife and I thought she was beautiful however, because of reinventing myself they type of women I am attracting put my wife to shame.
One great clients who comes from an India heritage said they have this saying in English the only way to forget about a nail is to drive the other nail out. In other word when you have a nail in a 2×4 pound another nail on top of it to drive the old nail out.
I had an opportunity with a 20 year old Instagram model. She was very sweat however, you have to know yourself well enough to know if you are ready or not for a new relationship.
I still had a few things I wanted to work on myself with before I got into a new relationship however, she helped me to immediately get over my wife. I spent a lot of time with her in my work.
In addition to that, I knew there was not a long time future with her. Sure, I could have some fun with her however, I want someone who I can build a future with.
Women are attracted to men based upon a number of factors and the more of these factors you develop the higher quality of women you will attract.
Even though I turned down the opportunity to be with an Instagram model. I am a more confident and attractive man. I have the qualities to attract someone like her again.
In an effort to help you revere from your break up or divorce we created the “Alpha Male” and “Alpha Husband Academy” which is included in our workbook and action plans.
Women are attracted to men based upon a number of factors and the more of these factors you develop the higher quality of women you will attract and the higher quality of woman your wife will become.
Every human relationship has some basic human needs. When these needs are no being met we feel frustrated, angry and the relationship starts to go down hill.
This is even more important in your romantic relationships.
The 6 basic human needs are as follows:
1) Certainty – To rid your life of fear.
2) Variety – To break out of the daily routine.
3) Significance – The need to feel important and valued.
4) Love/Connection – To feel the bond with other human beings.
5) Growth – The pursuit of continuous self improvement.
6) Contribution – To focus on the needs or others.
When men don’t fulfill these needs their women hold back love and affection from you thinking you will work harder to win back there love however, this is not how he see it.
When your married If there’s no affection such as hugging, kissing or holding hands thus creating a lack of “chemistry” between you two and leading to a loveless, sexless marriage and perhaps even divorce.
The reason women start withholding love from their husbands is because there not getting their needs met so they punish their husbands by not giving them any affection.
Women have a tendency to withhold love and affection from men when her needs are not being met.
Women need to know you know you will be loyal to them. They are need to know you can take care of them if not, you lack to provide them with the basic human need “certainty” if your so wrapped up in your career, you fail to give them the basic human need “significance” you also need to provide them with something different so that they are entertained and not get bored.
Some Relationships end not because there’s no love but because woman are bored with the relationship and find it easier to end the relationship.
As a man you have 3 main jobs 1) Provider 2) Protector and 3) Teacher which all require the skill of leadership.
Provider – biologically men and women look at each other for health. This is even more important to men because men want a woman who have good breading traits. A woman who can mother healthy children however, woman want a man who can provide for them and her children.
Protector – Women need a man who can make her feel safe. She need to be confident her man will stand up for her and protect her.
Teacher – Another way a man protects his woman is by being her teacher.
As we have stated in some of our other issues that the average millionaire spend 60 min. Each and everyday educating themselves on business and financial material.
The same is true about any other area of your life. A man should provide for him family by being her teacher and becoming financial educated as well getting any other area of your families life handled which is why were created the Alpha Husband Academy which at the time is included our workbook and action plans that we can the Alpha Lifestyle Academy Download it here >>
Back in February of 2009 there were over 100,000 people who lost their job in that single day. That was a scary time for many people however, the job market has recovered since then but the chance of that happening again still looms.
Even though you have a job now, if you are like the majority of people you probably work too many hours for too little pay. Americans are considered as work-a-holics by many countries because of the amount of hours we work. For example NBC NEWS said of one European country that workers work an average of ____ earning $37 per hour.
Despite the economy recovering there are still many who are jobless and or without a way to properly provide for their family.
As part of the Alpha Lifestyle Academy’s workbook and action plans we have provided you with the step to get your boss to pay you $125 an hour however, before we get to that we are gonna address how to get a job, even when all hope is lost.
Getting a job is not so easy for some. If that is true for you this lesson is gonna be very helpful to you.
When you have a job you don’t get paid for the hours you work but rather for the value you provide. So let me show you how I was able to provide more value.
So your job even before you land a job is to show your future employer that you can provide more value than any other candidate they’ve looked at.
This is more than just being able to do the job because many times the job goes to not the person who can do a better job but the person who can sell themselves on the fact that they are the best candidate for the job.
So what you telling your prospective employer by the way you walk, your body language, and your voice tone.
It is recommended that you develop the ability to sell yourself.
This idea offends lots of people because they don’t want to lower themselves to have to sell themselves. We’ll you can rant and rave and complain how unfair this is or you can play by the rules of the game and win.
Let me share with you one of the things I did to create more value. First of all I asked myself what does my prospective employer want? A) They want more money. B) The want to save money.
So if you can solve any of these problems for a company they will reward you.
1) I asked companies if I got them more customers how much would they be willing to pay me.
2) I then went to another company who offered a product or service they were not in competition with the same question.
So I now have 2 companies who both have their own customers and who both want more customers.
3) I got each company to provide me we coupons or marketing material. So company A, give their customers coupons to company B and company B gives their customers to coupons to company A.
4) I’m in the middle and take and get a percentage of the profits from each company.
Inside the workbook and actions plans I provide everything you need including what to the scripts what to say, contract, and tracking program so you will know how to track how many customers you sent to each company, so you will know how much you are to be paid.
Inside the workbook you will see how a dry cleaner and carpet cleaner put a deal together which gave the carpet cleaner $1,000,000 in revenue and the dry cleaner an extra $20,000 all without spending money out of pocket for their advertising besides a few basic expenses.
For those of you with a job I want to invite you to watch our video series the money saving secrets of the ultra rich in which you are entitled to add $300-$500 per month added onto your pay check from you job.
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