POLARITY: There is a thing called polarity. There is always a feminine one and masculine one in the relationship however, in western countries with the push of the girl power and boss babe movement this has pushed many men into being the feminine one in the relationship.
If you want a elegant feminine woman you must be a masculine man and the more masculine you are the most feminine she will become.
We are a cocktail of different brain chemicals its is by taking the right action, to create that proper combination of brain chemicals that cause use to feel attracted to each other
When you don’t take on the masculine role in the relationship you woman resent the fact that you are not taking on this role and she feel she has to take on this role where she becomes irritable and criticizes you which make you feel emasculated and less of a man.
You then respond by trying to do everything you can imagine to make her happy but everything but what she needs from you.
You are a loving caring man with the best of intentions however, when a woman does not does not feel led by your masculine leadership she does not feel loved.
This happens when you fail to provide the caring masculine leadership. Instead you spend your time chasing after her instead of leading her.
Men and women need different thing from each other. Men expect woman to be men in a woman body and women expect men to be women in a mans body.
I don’t want you to confuse what the media in calling toxic masculinity. When you take on the role in the relationship of the masculine man she feel protected and led by your leadership.
She needs to change the way she is behaiving however, she probably will not change without your positive masculine leadership.
Many men ask their girl friends or wives what they would like to do on date night thinking they are being considerate however, when she feel like she has to make the decision and take initiative you are forcing her into her masculine role which is when she nitpicks and become increasingly irritable.
You need to optimize your life so she can stay in her feminine.
