The pain after a breakup up and divorce can be devastating for a man. Psychologists show that men often have a harder time dealing with divorce than women do. You may be excited to get back out there to help get over the pain of your loss but that is unhealthy.

Part of the problem for many men is they made women the priority in life. Your wife was attracted to you because of your drive but when you feel you got the prize (her) you lowered your standards and she lost attraction for you, problems crept in and you are where you are now DIVORCED!

Many men are not happy with themselves and use women to give them the validation to fill in the gaps of their insecurities. They may have loved her but in many cases, men become more in love with the way she made them feel, and the admiration they received because of her beauty than the love they have for her.