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Success Trait: Self Confidence

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Law #1 of Nepolean Hills' classic writings of the 17 laws of success is having a definite chief aim or life purpose where he states that desire is the starting point of all achievement.

You have enough desire to seek out opportunities and may even have enough desire to invest money into those opportunities however, the thing that stops people in their tracks is a lack of self-confidence.

Because of people's insecurities, low self-esteem, and lack of confidence causes them to self-sabotage themselves.

When it comes to financial success, Not all marketing is created equal!

You could put in the same amount of effort or money into certain types of marketing methods and not get the results you would had gotten if you would had used certain other types of marketing methods.

In Gary Keller (the real estate giant of Keller Williams) in his book “The One Thing” he asks what is the one thing you could do that make the other tedious work unnecessary?

Let me clear something up about making money online! The internet is what we call efficient however, it is not as effective. Through the internet you can expose tens of thousands of people to your message within minutes, which is not possible offline. But you have to have funds to invest into advertising or you had to spend months or perhaps years building your credibility online.

People want things fast! They don’t want to wait 2 years to be successful they want to be successful RIGHT NOW!  

The appeal of making money online is they send the message that you can make money on the internet working from the comfort of your home.

If what you’re doing makes you feel comfortable, something is really wrong. If a business is called easy from the comfort of your home.

That is not a business that’s an INSULT!

What is the one thing, that makes everything thing else you could do in your business to bring in sales irrelevant?

For this, we don’t what to take someone’s opinion but rather we what to look at what the facts show us. Because we don’t want to look at what helped certain people become successful but what will give you the best odds of success.

The DMA (Direct Marketing Association) published a study that shows the phone and direct mail are the two most effective forms of lead generation.

I also want you to notice the results for social media because of a lack of self-confidence many people don’t want to get on camera they like to hide behind social media.

 The power of technology is when you use it in conjunction with offline marketing methods. Another study from MarketingChart.com shows that text or (SMS) and email are the best forms of marketing to nurture a lead into a custoer, once you generate a lead, however, when it comes to generating interest the telephone is the single best form of marketing.

Steve Jobs - got his start in computers by cold calling Dave Hewwit of hewit Packard computers.

Grant Cardone - in his make millions on the phone web class which he says: “The telephone is the most powerful tool in the history of business” Grant goes on to explain the phone is way more effective than any other sales tool out there, including social media. 

Robert Herjavec - from shark tank worked in sales room cold calling 

Jewel - cold-called radio station to get the to play her album

Sarah Blakely of Spanks - The youngest female billion cold-called retailers to carry her line while her competitors wait for them to approach 

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Tai Lopez - Posted on Twitter my mentor mike stain back said if you're afraid of the phone you’ll always be poor. If not you’ll always be able to make money 

We are products of our environment! Chance are you were raised by parents who had insecurities however, fear of failure is a self-fulfilling prophecy because of the lack of self-confidence which causes us to self-sabotage ourselves. 

Kobe Bryant spoke on this at a TEDX event where he said the confidence comes from preparation. Self confidence is a product of knowledge, confidence without knowledge is ego, confidence without any basis for your confidence is egotism. 

Over 25 year study Naplean Hill revealed that are 17 principles that all successful people follow, 33 reason why they fail, and 6 things that cause people to fail by self sabotaging themselves.

Over the past number of decades there have been a tremendous amount of new knowledge that we have discovered about phycology and how the brain works.

Clinical psychologist use exposure therapy to develop courage and build self confidence. Lets say you went through the moduel “The straightest path to success” at alpha lifestyle academy.com and because you have little money and are convinced the phone is the best way to start generating cash flow but you fearful of what people might say to you.

You want to take small incremental steps to develop confidence. 1) you might start by picking up the phone and acting like your calling a stranger 2) combine that with rehearsing your script 3) roll play with a friend until you have the confidence to start making cold calls.

The same thing is true about anything else you lack confidence.

Let me re-introduce myself my name is Christopher Brown; my last job I was hired as a business strategist for a $400 million dollar marketing firm many times working with executives from billion dollar companies however, I could not duplicate the same level of results that I did for my clients because I had not yet developed the 2 personality traits that are the greatest predictors of wealth.

I had the knowledge however, I struggled for a long time because I had not yet developed the 2 personality traits that are the greatest predictors of wealth I would unknowably self-sabotage myself. Now chances are you were not born with these traits you are going to have to develop them.

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Build A $350,000 Per Month Income By Working An Average Of 2 Hours A Day!

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Hi my name is Christopher Brown from Alpha Lifestyle academy

When embarking on this journey of entrepreneurship, most people focus on the money. However, there is more to consider than just the money.

Instead we need an enterprise that gives us the freedom to support your lifestyle as Mark, one of my past mentors told me, who built a $350,000 per month income by working an average of 2 hours a day.

He said: “we all have friends, family and things we’d rather do than working however, we need the money and the time in order to do those things”.

It docent matter how much we make per year, what matters is how much we make per hour, however, we need to design our enterprise to support our lifestyle.

We do this by out strategizing our competition because our competition naively built a enterprise to make a living, we on the other hand out smarts our competition by designing our enterprise to support our lifestyle.

Another on of my mentors who volunteers much of his time in his missionary work told me our job is to make as much money as we can in the shortest time aspossible so we can use the time doing what we feel is important.

Bryce lives on a $40,000 yacht in Marina del Rey for a rent of $600 mo. with his brother by making a living documenting his yacht lifestyle on instagram and youtube. when you compare a $40,000 yacht and rent to the surrounding apartment which are going  for an average rent of $4,000 a month.

You can see how easy it is to increase your standard of living

Typically When an enterprise make a profit, the owner uses their share of the revenue to make a living from.
On the other hand, When you build a enterprise to support your lifestyle, the lifestyle is part of the business model.

For example Pejman drives exotic car like Lameriginis and Ferraris. His lifestyle is part of his business model.

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If you want more of a luxury lifestyle, Neil Stauss who is a writer for some of the biggest publications in the world is also known as a relationship coach for guys who held coaching events for 50 or so guy and the ticket of the event pays the lifestyle which is part of the experience he sells.

Hugh Huffner was the ultimate lifestyle entrepreneur which was an unheard ofbusiness model at the time, who made little for the size of his organization, which some source list as only a million dollars however, he built a business to support his lifestyle living in a mansion surrounded by beautiful women, traveling the world and hosting lavish parties 

Building a empire is about building a enterprise to support your lifestyle. For a time I use to lived in a vacation resort in celebration Florida because I wanted to live my life on vacation, and would go to Disney world 3-4x a week, and once a month we’d visit a hot vacation hot spot. 

Im in a different place in my life.

This may be the first time you have ever considered the possibility of living a lifestyle like this.

How would you describe your perfect lifestyle?

If you could live anywhere in the world, where would you live? What would you do with the extra time your enterprise provides you? What kind of hobbies would you engage in?

Building a empire is about building a enterprise to support your lifestyle. For a time I use to lived in a vacation resort in celebration Florida because I wanted to live my life on vacation, and would go to Disney world 3-4x a week, and once a month we’d visit a hot vacation hot spot. 

Im in a different place in my life.

This may be the first time you have ever considered the possibility of living a lifestyle like this.

How would you describe your perfect lifestyle?

If you could live anywhere in the world, where would you live? What would you do with the extra time your enterprise provides you? What kind of hobbies would you engage in?

How To Make More Money In The Next 18 Months, Than You Have In The Last 18 Years

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I understand that making more in the next 18 months than you have in the last 18 years may sound outlandish however, once you know a couple of things you will see how simple this is.

Now I’m guessing for many of you, this is probably not the first time you have looked into ways to make more money. The marketplace is filled with opportunities promising that they can help you make more money however, if you did not experience the results you expect it is because you did not possess any of the 2 personality traits that are the greatest predictors of wealth.

So before we get started I want to invite you to take your performance-based personality test to see if you have any of the 2 personality traits that are the greatest predictors of wealth. Some people are born with these traits, while others have cultivated them with their surroundings however, chances are you were not born with these traits, and I know I was not. I have had to develop them.

So I want to invite you to take your performance-based personality test at http://millonairetest.alphalifestyleacademy.com 

When many of you started your enterprise you imagined the freedom it would give you however, once you got going you saw how much work went into running a small business from the strains on your time trying to get everything done, making enough money to make ends met, and if you are successful enough hiring the right people for the job.

Most of you are working way harder than you need to and for a lot less money however, its not what you do but how you do it. Many people got started because they felt their boss did not appreciate the contributions they gave to their boss's success or felt they could do a better job than their boss and started a business in the same industry they were working in however, you soon realize the same skill you needed as a employee are not the same skill you need to run a successful enterprise.

When embarking on this "journey of entrepreneurship", most people focus on the money. However, there is more to consider than just the money.

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Instead, we need an enterprise that gives us the freedom to support your lifestyle as Mark Yarnell, one of my past mentors told me, who built a $350,000 per month income by working an average of 2 hours a day.

He said: “We all have friends, family, and things we’d rather do than work however, we need the money and the time to do those things”.

It doesn't matter how much we make per year, what matters is how much we make per hour, however, we need to design our enterprise to support our lifestyle.

 We do this by out-strategizing our competition because our competition naively built an enterprise to make a living, we on the other hand "out smart" our competition by designing our enterprise to support our lifestyle.

Let me re-introduce myself. My name is Christopher Brown. In my last job I was hired as a business strategist for a $400 million dollar marketing firm many times working with executives from companies like ancestry.com, creat truck, and Proctor and Gamble

After doing an average of as many as 60 sessions per week, for three years,  many of them with executives from billion dollar companies  I noticed a pattern that we called as the billion dollar blueprint that many already existing billion dollar companies use, and brought that same success to the internet. 

There are "unicorns" where some idea catches fire and are able to sell for a billion dollars like when facebook bought instagram for a billion dollars however, when new start up companies, or small businesses use the billion dollarblueprint they were finally able to achieve the freedom they always wanted.

So I’ve taken what I learned from these billion dollars companies and scaled them down so that smaller companies could use them by creating  a short cut for you.

Instead of having to so any of the complicated things we do to build a successful small business empire We have done the work for you.

We use a similar software that some of the biggest experts in their field use including dean grazisoi, grant cordon, digital marketer and many other have used who earned 100’s of millions of dollars And that a major investment firm acquired from learn vest for 250 million dollars that we call as an auto sales closing system that will 1 ) capture your leads 2) present your products to your prospects 3) close right there on the spot and if they don’t buy it follows up with them and closes them at a later point by capitalizing on 9 catogies of income streams.

This is just the beginning!

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Dating After Divorce

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The pain after a breakup up and divorce can be devastating for a man. Psychologists show that men often have a harder time dealing with divorce than women do. You may be excited to get back out there to help get over the pain of your loss but that is unhealthy.

Part of the problem for many men is they made women the priority in life. Your wife was attracted to you because of your drive but when you feel you got the prize (her) you lowered your standards and she lost attraction for you, problems crept in and you are where you are now DIVORCED!

Many men are not happy with themselves and use women to give them the validation to fill in the gaps of their insecurities. They may have loved her but in many cases, men become more in love with the way she made them feel, and the admiration they received because of her beauty than the love they have for her.

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Law #1 Of The #17 Laws Of Success: Definite Chief Aim!

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In Napolean Hill classic the “Laws Of Success” which became “Think & Grow Rich” he revealed that having a definite chief aim or life purpose is one of the 17 principles that all successful people have in common, not just financial success but success in all areas of your life.

The reason people fail to lose weight, make more money, build a successful career is because they just kind of want it. They don’t want in more than they sleep in, or relax, they are not willing to give up certain habits to reach their objectives.

Tim Grover the performance coach of some of the world's most legendary athletes like Micheal Jordan and Kobe Bryant put it this way: “To be so obsessed with the results that the work becomes irrelevant.”

Most people are more obsessed with their comforts than achieving the life they want.

Developing a life plan is a process. We do not normally start out obsessed. It may take time to decide on your definite heir aim. Most people do not decide what they want out of life. They look at their surroundings and follow the footsteps of friends, family, or those in the community however, there are those who stumble upon a bigger world view, or a major tragedy impacts a person's life enough to make some drastic changes.

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Obesity runs in families typically because they all have the same lifestyle standards however, it is not until one member of the family dies of a heart attack does someone decides to change that pattern of their health impacting future generations. 

If someone is wealthy there is someone in the family line that experienced the pain of not having enough money that they decided to change the legacy of that family.

Napolean Hill said that Desire is the starting point of all achievement however, desire is not enough! You need to cultivate your desire until your desire become fertile and inspires you to action to where you become obsessed.

James 1: 14-15 gives us insight into how the brain works when it says: But each one is tried out, being drawn out and enticed by his own desire, then the desire when it has become fertile, gives birth to sin; in turn sin when it has been carried out brings forth death.

1) you have the thought that leads to 2) a feeling, that leads to 3) action, that leads to 4) fulfillment of your objective.

In 1998 Neruoscintist discover neruoplacitiy where repeated thoughts build thicker and thinker neurological connections thus building new habits, emotions, and skills.

In other words the more you think about something the stronger your desire becomes however, at the dawn of the 15th century the Medici family had no such knowledge of how the brain works and how to build desire.

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The success principles of the writings of Nepean Hill have been passed on from one generation to the next throughout the ages through oral traditions in small groups and organizations of people down to our day.

It is only until recently that science has caught up with this secret knowledge.

The church once had the power to burn people at the stake because of possessing the Bible and then when the church started losing its power they convinced people they were too stupid to understand the Bible so that those in control could maintain their power.

the Bible, certain math formulas, and the knowledge of Charles Hannel's master key system were outlawed.

Andrew Carnegie commission Napoleon Hill and introduced him to 500 of the most successful businessmen in the world to do a 25-year study of what these men have in common with each other which was released in 1925 as a correspondence course through the mail through a series of booklets and in 1928 released it as the “Laws of Success” in one volume.

However, Henry Ford felt the “Laws of Success” revealed too many secrets and would create too much completion for him. So in 1931 after the death of Andrew Carnegie, they released as the classic “Think And Grow Rich”.

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Which was marketed as a simplified version, however, in reality, it was nothing of a sort. “Think And Grow Rich” neglected to reveal the true secrets of success which was Andrew Carney dying wish.  

Finding Your Definite Cheif Aim

Warren Buffet, one of the world's richest people says to make a list of the 25 top things you want to achieve in life! Then he suggests that you make another list of your top 5.

In that list, you will find your definite chief aim in life. In your top 5, you may also find starting a family, and having kids. But you will find that your definite chief aim is what will enable you to achieve your priorities in life.

Napolean Hill says that people waste a lot of time by not defining their definite chief aim in life and not to waste time with side project because it distracts you with your purpose.

Warren Buffet said to make a list of 25 things you would like to achieve in life but to only focus on 5 until you achieve those 5 because they will distract you from your purpose. 

Cultivating Your Definite Cheif Aim

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The Bible book Jousha 1:8 says: This book of the Law should not depart from your mouth,o and you must read it in an undertone* day and night, in order to observe carefully all that is written in it;p for then your way will be successful and then you will act wisely.

The average millionaire spends 60 minutes each and every day educating themselves on business and financial material. So whatever part of your life you want to get handled you should spend 60 minutes each and every day educating yourself on the subject.

If you want to get in shape and lose weight you should spending 60 minutes each and every day educating yourself on diet and fitness material.

On the other hand, the average person spends 6 hours watching TV and another 4 hours on the phone in non-productive activities because most people would rather escape their problems rather than finding solutions to them.

On the other hand, successful people try to find solutions to their problems before their issues ever become a problem. So your definite chief aim in life should dominate your thoughts.   

Concentration Of Effort

What Napolean Hill calls “concentration of effort” directs us to write down our chief aim so you see it every day and every night answering the questions

what is your definite chief aim in life?
Why do you want this as your chief aim in life?
When will you accomplish your chief aim in life?
How will you achieve your definite chief aim?

Describe it in as much detail as possible including, sights, sounds, colors, and how it will make you feel.

Mastermind

Principle #12 of the 17 laws of success is to form a mastermind alliance.

Proverb 13:20 The one walking with the wise will become wise,d But the one who has dealings with the stupid will fare badly.e

Your life, money, health, and problems are the reflection of the 5-8 people you spend the most time with.

Those who are successful seek the company of other who are successful. Where as, we have all heard the term misery loves company. Do you spend more time thinking about your failures or your successes.

Failure comes from those who try to remind you of your past failures, those who lost faith in your definite chief aim, or the lack of loyalty however, time is a master worker that heals the wounds of temper defeat.

You may need to remove and replace, or spend less time with those of your mastermind with those who are not in harmony with your definite chief aim in life. 

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